Is it normal that as a woman, i feel like i can't relate much to my own gender?

This is not an uncommon thing among women, and girls on the autism spectrum. There are also women who are not on the spectrum who are maybe tomboys, or just aren't cool with the cattiness of certain other females, or heavily female institutions. I don't think femininity, and masculinity are as clear cut as some people would like to think.

I always felt like this growing up. I never fitted in with any of the girl groups in school and I often felt like I had to fake interest in the most stupid things in order to make friends with a bunch of people who I didn't even enjoy being around. I just ended up hanging around with boys because it was much easier to be myself.

I've found it's gotten much better with age. People are less afraid to be themselves as they get older, so it's easier to find women you genuinely click with because the women you meet aren't desperately trying to fit in and conform to the stereotypical female role. All those interests that made me an outcast in school - anime, gaming, comics, sci fi, sports etc - it turns out that A LOT of other women are into that stuff too.

The truth is that most women aren't really as "girly girl" and bitchy as you might think. There's a whole spectrum of interesting and well rounded women out there that you might get on well with, you just have to keep putting yourself out there. Don't fall into the trap of thinking that you "just get on better with the guys". It becomes a self fulfilling prophecy and you end up missing out on a lot of cool friendships.

It's totally fine to have guy friends and guy role models, but try to stay open minded towards the females as well.

I get this a lot. I have a hard time relating to my gender as well, and it doesn't necessarily mean trans. sometimes things just don't click, and thats fine.

I think we're identical twins separated at birth (aside from the autism)

Confusion, confusion, confusion.

Unfortunately you got me wrong here as well. It's a typo, I bet you realize. I like eating ass! So one more thing to divide us. 😅
But we could still try. You a guy or girl?

😂

You sound like some self-conceited assholes pretending to know others you don't know. I don't make friends bcs ppl ate assholes. That's it, to sum it up.

I'm the same way. In general, I just "click" better with most guys than most girls. I've never really been able to put my finger on why that is.

I'm autistic also and i've never been able to connect with other women. As a kid, sure, but everyone are pretty chill as kids. I just don't get women my age, it feels like all of them play games and trash talk each other and the exceptions are probably hard to find because those girls aren't as loud and noticeable and when you aren't social yourself how do you even find them in the first place. Guys in my experience are overall easier because they are more honest towards their friends, they are straight forward and don't compete with each other like women tend to do.
Of course i've also had luck in the men i've come across in life and befriended but I have tendency to either attract men who are confirmed on the spectrum, or men with - to me - obvious autistic traits. One of my best friends is very social but still possibly autistic to me since we relate to each other so much and well, even autistic people are social. It's a spectrum as wide as how different neurotypicals are from each other. There's both introverted and extroverted neurotypicals also. So I can see what you mean. Personally I could imagine befriending women maybe double my age, or at least 10 years older and who are mature and secure enough in themselves to not enjoy creating drama. Plus I feel more comfortable with women slightly older than myself.

If you're autist, how can you have any friends? How do you make friends with others you can't connect with?
I'm honestly wondering bcs I can't connect with anyone and have no friends. Well, technically one, whom I don't like and often consider dumping.