Is it normal that as a girl, i started to feel strange around other girls?

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I am female and I have always identified as straight, I am very attracted to men, and I never felt attracted to girls before.

However, recently I started to feel that boobs slightly turn me on. Is that normal? At the same time, if there is a REALLY beautiful woman walking by, I can't help but stare.

Another instance would be, there was a girl I met whom I got to know, and her personality was amazing. I thought she was super cool, nice, and I felt this very strange gut attraction to her. I don't know if it means I developed feelings for her or what? Because the feeling is not the same as when I had crushes on guys. If I liked a guy, the thought of him going out with another girl would make me feel envious. However, if I thought of her going out with some other guy, I feel fine and happy for her. So I can't tell if it is normal to feel "attracted" to a girl. Am I just attracted to her in a "you're so cool!" way and just find her very cool? And after knowing her for a while, the strange attraction is now gone. I still think she's pretty cool though. I have no idea what it was. this feeling has happened to me before with another friend of mine who was very shy, and I felt that she was realllly nice and I had that feeling as well. I wanted to protect her, but once again the thought of her going out with someone else did not bother me. Is this normal? Or rather, am I bisexual?!

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  • quiley
    12 years ago | pl

    yeah it's normal, in your case it sounds like you've developed admiration towards the girl that you've met. your thought to protect someone links to admiration also, wanting to make sure if the person is okay and you want nothing to harm what is precious to you.
    you might also get a spark of that because her personality is so different to others that it appealed to you the most or maybe there is something about her that you wish you could be. her personality perhaps.
    and just because you look at girls with big boobs doesn't mean you should question your sexuality.
    in my case, i look at everyone's butt. guy or girl, i don't care. it's the first thing i look at when i see someones backside and i'm fine with it.

    just remember that you're you. and whatever attracts you is your own. i hoped i helped.

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