Is it normal that after 30 years my man & i can't keep our hands off each other

My man and I met 30 years ago when we were young and had an instant animal magnetism between us. We never had that with anyone else.
They say that after a while the "fire" goes out and things slow down, but that never happened to us. We still have sex like we did when we first met...all the time and it's even hotter and more intense than when we first met if that is possible. He just looks at me and gets hard and I just look at him and I want to jump his bones. We are like teenagers.
We are both still in pretty good shape, but I think if we weren't it wouldn't make a difference because we have this strange thing for each other. It's almost like an addiction. I see other couples our age and many of them are practically nonsexual or having very little sex if at all.
Are we that out of the ordinary? Is this normal?

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  • This is totally normal if you marry the right person. I think the reason why a lot of couples slow down as they age is that they were never *that* crazy about each other to begin with . . . but if you marry your 'soul mate', as such, you'll never get tired of one another. Congratulations, and keep being awesome!

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  • This post really got me thinking about my own sex life and how it's lacking. I miss performing oral sex so much, I really do miss making love and waking up on the middle of the night for sex.

    This morning I woke up with a raging hard on, I knew my wife would say no so I stroked it for a few minutes. Oddly enough and I'm being totally honest, I woke up at 3am thinking of Mary. In my dream she was in bed with me and I felt that familiar warmth of love that we shared.

    My wife is good don't get me wrong, we don't fight, we get along and enjoy doing things together. My wife loves to suck my cock so getting head is never a problem. And she looks good. My sex life might not be the best but I'm in a good place in my life so I won't complain.

    I envy all of you but at the same time I'm happy for you.

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    • How long has Mary been gone?

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      • This site won't allow me to post a link but Google

        Is it normal long lost love

        99% of the time Mary comes to me in my dreams.

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      • A very long time

        http://m.isitnormal.com/story/long-lost-love-88601/

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  • I've been married for 44 years. We fuck but we have not made love for 40 years.

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    • I have not "made love" in decades. That's the stuff dreams and movies are made of....

      In my relationship it's all about busting a nut, if you can't cum then nothing happens. No affection at all nothing.

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      • If making love is the stuff dreams and movies are made of, then I guess I'm living a dream in a real life movie and loving it!
        It's so sad that you have no affection at all.

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    • We do both. Sometimes we just want to screw each others' brains out. Most times it is making love. Making love can get pretty hot and heavy too though.

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    • Now that's down right sad.

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      • I agree

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        • In love over tome becomes deep affection. Not the young passion of youth.

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  • Me and Mary were like that, just one of the many reasons why I miss her so much.

    Does your husband cum each time.?

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    • Every time without failure

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      • Just a question.

        If he does not cum how do you feel?

        My wife seems disappointed in me or like I really didn't need sex if I don't cum.

        To be honest I feel disappointed too. I can't cum everyday like I did as a teenager.

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        • He usually does everytime. Sometimes he doesn't because he always holds off until I do. He wants me to enjoy myself before he does. Sometimes when he holds off for a very very long time for me and we are playing for a very long time and he doesn't orgasm, I think it may be because he is tired. This happens very rarely.
          I'm not disappointed because we both enjoy it all and he loves the whole process of making me feel good.

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          • That's great. My wife doesn't like foreplay or any oral simulation, she only wants me inside her. So if I don't or can't keep going until I cum it's pretty much over.

            Everybody is different I guess. For example with other women if I touch their cunt through their pants they get turned on, but with my wife nothing..... I might as well be rubbing her knee.

            Sex keeps you healthy and fit both mentally and physically.

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  • Congratulations marriage lives on same here.my husband and I have been married 32yrs and still have regular sex should I say most night and days

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  • Obviously it's normal for you, but certainly not common.

    Congratulations!

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    • I don't understand why more people don't enjoy sex/love making as much when they get older. It is such a stress reliever and is so good for the relationship...
      and it feels GREAT!

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      • I reckon more of us would enjoy it if we could find someone to enjoy it with

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      • I agree. The worry of getting pregnant is gone, the house is empty, you're married to reach other so why not. Sex/Love making is like the fire that keeps you warm and protected in the wilderness. A couple should never let that fire go out.

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