Is it normal that a woman isn't as responsive to the same things?

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So I recently started sleeping with this woman, and the first time we were together, I managed to get her off with oral. There were a couple specific things that I did for a long time in order to do that, and they worked to get her going the other times we were together. However, the last time, she wasn't nearly as responsive to ANYTHING I did, especially when it came to oral. She even told me that what I was doing to her back tickled, despite it being the exact thing that I did previously that felt SO good for her.

I know that there is such thing as disappointing sex, but is it really normal to have such a fluctuation in her pleasure? I'm kind of upset that, out of the last 3 times we've been together, I haven't been able to get her off despite experimenting and then going back to tried-and-true stuff when that experimentation fails. Am I just overthinking it? I care a lot about how she feels.

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  • BookLover
    7 years ago

    Well I think it might be her getting used to being touched 'that way' in 'that place'. Sensitivity to certain touches does change often. Ask her opinion on what she would like you to do though

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  • _Jesus_
    7 years ago

    There's this woman who entered the hospital the other day. She was having oral intercourse with a random dude she was cheating with and at some point the guy burnt her stuff with a lighter, supposedly very badly. She was tied to the bed by her hands and ankles and the music was extremely loud so her screams couldn't be heard. Luckily for her something happened that made the power trip at the house they were at.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      Wow, that is both incredibly sad and irrelevant.

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      • mysistersshadow
        7 years ago

        its also BDSM done very wrong.

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  • mysistersshadow
    7 years ago

    Why not ask her what she would like you to do?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      Of course I've been asking her. And she has given very verbal feedback on several things I've been doing well. It's just that the other night, none of it was working quite as well.

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