Yes, strength is a factor but it's not the only factor. It's about the princible, setting an example that it's not acceptable to abuse you. I'm not Saying to use all your strength I'm saying use equivilent strength, strength that would hurt but not hurt so much that it leaves real damage. A slap for a slap and so on.
A 175lbs vs 120lbs is unfair but would you not also agree that a 175lbs without any ability to use that 175lbs against a 120 lbs person who can use force is far more unfair and far more of an abuse of power? I know you see what I mean, as you said at the start, but I think you're not seeing the point of setting a president, a warning hat if you aim to hurt me then you will be hurt type of thing.
Do i think it's acceptable? Yeah I think it is to hit someone with the same force as they hit you if walking away did not work any previous amount of times.
Im not saying you have to see it as acceptable yourself. What you're comfortable with doing is your choice and I'm not saying you have to do what I'm saying, I'm just saying that you should understand that it's not fair to say that a man who has tried walking away in the past cannot give equivilent harm to a woman as she gave to a man.
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Yes, strength is a factor but it's not the only factor. It's about the princible, setting an example that it's not acceptable to abuse you. I'm not Saying to use all your strength I'm saying use equivilent strength, strength that would hurt but not hurt so much that it leaves real damage. A slap for a slap and so on.
A 175lbs vs 120lbs is unfair but would you not also agree that a 175lbs without any ability to use that 175lbs against a 120 lbs person who can use force is far more unfair and far more of an abuse of power? I know you see what I mean, as you said at the start, but I think you're not seeing the point of setting a president, a warning hat if you aim to hurt me then you will be hurt type of thing.
Do i think it's acceptable? Yeah I think it is to hit someone with the same force as they hit you if walking away did not work any previous amount of times.
Im not saying you have to see it as acceptable yourself. What you're comfortable with doing is your choice and I'm not saying you have to do what I'm saying, I'm just saying that you should understand that it's not fair to say that a man who has tried walking away in the past cannot give equivilent harm to a woman as she gave to a man.