No, as others have said, this is an abusive relationship and a recipe for disaster. I won't repeat the same points others have been making here, but this is a huge red flag and this guy might very well be fucking dangerous. It's not the mark of a good person to try to control the lives of the one they love.
I would love to say I hope she sees reason and gets out before things get worse, but I too was once naive. I too, learned the hard way what a relationship like this eventually needs to. You've done what you can to help your friend - from here she must help herself. If she comes to you looking for a way out, find some resources for victims that she can utilize.. I don't know if they live together, if there's any financial dependance or other things like that complicating this relationship. If so, there are wonderful resources out there she can utilize to help get her out of there, but it's something she's going to have to come to on her own. Trying to force the issue further will likely only cause her to double down on her committment.
IIN that a guy won't let his girlfriend have her own social media accounts?
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No, as others have said, this is an abusive relationship and a recipe for disaster. I won't repeat the same points others have been making here, but this is a huge red flag and this guy might very well be fucking dangerous. It's not the mark of a good person to try to control the lives of the one they love.
I would love to say I hope she sees reason and gets out before things get worse, but I too was once naive. I too, learned the hard way what a relationship like this eventually needs to. You've done what you can to help your friend - from here she must help herself. If she comes to you looking for a way out, find some resources for victims that she can utilize.. I don't know if they live together, if there's any financial dependance or other things like that complicating this relationship. If so, there are wonderful resources out there she can utilize to help get her out of there, but it's something she's going to have to come to on her own. Trying to force the issue further will likely only cause her to double down on her committment.