I find myself only thinking of the good times with my ex-wife which honestly were very few.
And I feel the need to believe that the bad times, of which there were many, were not as bad as they actually were.
It's normal and healthy as long as it doesn't become an obsession
I think that's part of it, the wanting to remember not only the good times with her, but, maybe the "better me" and feeling on top of the world (at the time). Could also be a tiring of the same people I associate with, and wanting to be better again. Not that my current people are bad; I just feel I can do better.
It won't become an obsession, since the first place I ate at was after shopping and getting gas nearby, and the second, stopping for two small drafts b/c the place was close to home. Not like I went out of my way to go to these places.
iin, that...I've been going for drinks at places my ex and I used to go to?
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The need to glamorize the past is very strong.
I find myself only thinking of the good times with my ex-wife which honestly were very few.
And I feel the need to believe that the bad times, of which there were many, were not as bad as they actually were.
It's normal and healthy as long as it doesn't become an obsession
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I think that's part of it, the wanting to remember not only the good times with her, but, maybe the "better me" and feeling on top of the world (at the time). Could also be a tiring of the same people I associate with, and wanting to be better again. Not that my current people are bad; I just feel I can do better.
It won't become an obsession, since the first place I ate at was after shopping and getting gas nearby, and the second, stopping for two small drafts b/c the place was close to home. Not like I went out of my way to go to these places.