Is it normal penis rubbing against partners' bones during anal sex?

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i'll keep this brief. i (male) had anal sex for the very first time in my life. my partner, a thin figured female, had immense pleasure receiving it and i too enjoyed the experience.. well, to a certain extent...

i literally couldn't touch my dick for the next 7 days because of the skin that was peeling from the head of my dick afterwards.. ouch/yuck

it felt like when i got about 4 inches deep into her rectum, i could literally feel my dick scraping against the bones of her butt (cervix?). it obviously hurt, but i kept going, and at the end, had to pay to price of temporary/permanent damage to my johnson...

I don't know how else to approach this.. I don't know if lube would help.. yeah it was tighter than the vagina, but it loosens up after awhile.

i was wondering if anyone else has experienced this since i couldn't find any info on it online.

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  • Avant-Garde
    10 years ago

    I don't think that's normal. For your damaged penis, I really think you should consult a doctor. Is your girlfriend very thin? If you ever have anal again 1. If it starts to hurt don't be afraid to tell her that you need to stop, 2. Wear a condom, 3. Use some lube. Perhaps, you should talk to her about this "bone" or you could ask a sex expert.

    Good luck.

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  • gashlover
    9 years ago

    different bodies fit together differently. If you bone somebody else in the butt this won't likely happen again. If you continue to bone this babe in the butt though, i'd suggest more lube and a different position.

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  • Itazu
    10 years ago

    Use tons of lube and use your fingers to stretch her out a bit more (basically, finger her anus) before you just stick your "johnson" in.

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  • xTheShadyCharacterx
    10 years ago

    I think the peeling is from friction and you burned your "johnson" the bone would most likely bruise your "johnson"

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  • xTheShadyCharacterx
    10 years ago

    Yes you should try lube

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  • BloodRedAndTrue
    10 years ago

    that sounds nice

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  • StarTeddy
    10 years ago

    What you have to do is:

    1) Wear a condom next time.

    2) Angle yourself in a different way next time so that you don't hit against her bone. Try different positions to see what works.

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  • disthing
    10 years ago

    "ouch/yuck" indeed.

    I haven't heard of this happening before, or experienced it myself. So I'd suggest it isn't normal.

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