Is it normal not orgasming the first times you have sex?
When losing your virginity and the following times you have sex, is it normal not to orgasm?
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Normal. I'm not sure if you're male or female, but not cumming is fairly common in women. Women often require more time than men to orgasm. Also, comfort level also plays a role in achieving an orgasm, remember that sex is about intimacy, both with yourself and your partner.
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Not to worry. All kinds of things can interfere with having an orgasm the first few times. Don't be afraid to share with your partner the things that stimulate you. Hopefully he can last more than 5 minutes - that helps! Anyway, just relax and enjoy - it will happen.
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The deal is, I'm inexperienced but he supposedly isn't. I'm guessing you'll advise me do dump the supposedly-experienced one then? ahaha
I've been letting it flow because since I'm not sure about what do I like yet maybe that's the reason why. Should I keep experimenting or just give up on this cause?Comment Hidden ( show )-
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If a fellow knows how to please a woman, then after the first few possibly painful and nervous times, he should be putting all his attention into your pleasure. If it isn't going well for you then most likely he just isn't all that good a lover.
There are physical problems that might be at fault, but I would tend to doubt that that is the problem, at this early point.
As for continuing with this guy or moving on, well I guess you'll have to decide that for yourself. Whatever you do, don't let this guy convince you that it's your fault. If he goes that route then you must find a new guy; one who will respect you.Comment Hidden ( show ) -
Experience can mean a lot of things. He has experience with you, but by your own admission, you have no idea how to properly guide him to please you. If his supposed experience is with other young, inexperienced girls like your self, he may have learned nothing from those supposed experiences, just as he is learning nothing from you.
Remember, practice only makes perfect if he has been practicing the right things.
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