Is it normal normal to loose you're personality after bad things have happened

my dad's very sick and we dont know whats wrong with him i lost two other family members in the past 6 months and i use to be a happy cheerful talkitive person but now im quiet and never know what to say and im always in a bad mood is this normal?

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Based on 103 votes (98 yes)
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Comments ( 13 )
  • Violet_X

    Dude...People in your family died. It wouldn't be normal for you to continue to be cheery.

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  • roxeedoodle

    ... *Lose.... *Your

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    • dodongos

      Dammit, I was going to say that.

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  • Thatguy777

    Yea it's normal. My story is a little different. My first school was a really good school, and I had alot of friends. Then my parents transferred me to a private school. Everyone there was preppy and everybody hated me. I went from very charismatic to very quiet and shy. I never got my self esteem back either, and I probably never will. It's normal

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  • 8Serene8

    *lose

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  • korn3654

    The physiological changes that take place during this time cause this. It can be temporary, just don't isolate yourself and express how your feeling to your friends.

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  • blacckWolf

    Find some music that helps. Tool is a good.

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  • Elegy

    Its normal you lost close people.But be patient time will put everything in its place

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  • mluker

    Yeah. Sorry to hear all that. Try to get back to your cheerful self. That way you and your family can share good moments and be happy and grateful to be alive and well.

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  • Treynine

    Yeah but it may just be temporary

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  • fallen8798

    It's normal... Try new things in your life. Might make u feel more happier

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  • roxeedoodle

    And yes it's normal... It's called depression. Go to your doctor, they have nice pills to make you happy again. (As horrible as that probably came out I'm serious)

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  • firefly88

    Get over it people die all the time

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