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It started at a company party, and I got drunk and cheated on my husband once. After that, I felt bad for about 2 weeks, but then did it again with the same guy. Now I cheat on my husband at least 3 times a week, with different men, and the thrill is still there.
Is it normal I get a thrill out of cheating on my husband and having sex with married men?
It's all good I guess until a condom breaks, he doesn't pull out or you forget to take your birth control pill, or some other method of birth control fails. Not to mention, if he's using you to cheat, chances are he is also sleeping with other women (or men) and they are sleeping with other people......next thing you know, you got a nasty STD and you've given it to your husband. Why not just get a divorce? Or at least tell him so he can stop having sex with you or so he can go get tested as a precaution? Cheating is not right regardless. And the difference in an open marriage is that both parties are aware of the arrangement.
I got caught masturbating in the OSU library while I was working on my term papers. The librarian that caught me just asked me to leave. I don't know who was more embarrassed....yes I do, she was! I laughed my ass off once I got outside.
The getting caught in church sounds fun! May have to try that!
Its normal to get a thrill. Thats prolly why many ppl do it. But its not normal to cheat on ya husband unless he is not giving you something u crave. If its sex i am sure ur husband would love more sex. Or u could just ask him for a threesome. He might be cool with it.
It's normal to feel a thrill. You get a rush off emotions when you get away with something bad.
However, you might have a serious issue. You absolutely lack of empathy. You simply don't think about how your husband would feel that you Betsy his trust like that. Even if your marriage is not working, you are working hard to make it worse.
I would recommend you telling your husband, and potentially divorce him. He deserves to know. If you ever lived him, tell him.
Also, stop doing this. This thrill that you feel will make you numb to getting away with worse and worse stuff and you will regret it in the end. It can feel like an addiction.