Is it normal my wet dreams are with girls when i'm a girl?
I'm a heterosexual girl, I'm happy with my boyfriend and overall relationship. I can't understand why I keep having lesbian wet dreams with usually different girls (up to 3). Is this normal?
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I'm a heterosexual girl, I'm happy with my boyfriend and overall relationship. I can't understand why I keep having lesbian wet dreams with usually different girls (up to 3). Is this normal?
It's perfectly normal to enjoy both sexes sweety. I have dated both men and woman. I'm not saying you are bi, only you can answer that. Maybe you should open up to another woman about your thoughts and see what she thinks. You may find a woman has insights to share about what you do with these feelings you have.
I'm not saying fuck her. But have a nice conversation with a woman you trust.
You don't know what you're talking about. Check out Meredith Chivers studies, women are having women on women fantasies it's very common and yet they're not DATING other women. It means many things. We live in a society where women are hypersexualized and where porn is mainly focused on making the man getting it out. Lesbian porn focuses on female pleasure and that's why so many women like it or have these fantasties. Doesn't mean they would go out on the street and start making out with other women or tie the knot with them!!
You might be bi, gay or curious. My advice is for you to ponder on it and observe if you fantasise about women when you are turned on. Usually the direction our desire takes, signals what is our sexual orientation. I'm a lesbian and only think of women sexually and affectionately.
Don't worry about it. Just enjoy your fantasies! Most people fantasize about things and people they would never encounter in real life. The fact that you enjoy the image of another girl in some way or another does NOT mean that you are gay or even bi.
As long as it doesn't become a distraction from real-life relationships, just enjoy and get on with life.
My experience with wet dreams is that they have nothing to do with our normal sexuality. All of mine have been about taboo sex for hetero males. Sex with guys, sex with sister, one was just my mom coming down an escalator. Wet dreams mesn nothing except that your genitals are working
I can't begin to tell you that you're bi or lesbian, all I can tell you is that it might be worth it to explore a little? Maybe talk to your bf and see if he might be into it, or if he's ok with you exploring that type of relationship. And BTW, I'm kinda going through the same thing myself just that I'm not dating anyone. Best of luck! :)