Is it normal my sister has actually never asked my sexuality?

I'm 24f and she's 20.

We are very close and in fact still live together.
The weird thing is that I've never had a bf/relationship but nor has she. We have kinda spoken about dating before but I guess more so in a joking way like she would say "I'm bi"
after my mother has said ooah u could easily go gay.
We grope each other a lot in a fun way because we are just like that in a innocent playful way.
Anyway now you have the jist of things.
I have never directly asked if she's gay because she's adamantly said before that she's not but then jokes on about saying she's bi sexual lol
Well I have never joked about being bi or gay but she also knows I think most men are disgusting and also its hard for me to find a guy attractive.

So why hasn't she asked me after all these years?
Wouldn't she be curious of who I am because truthfully said, I'm definitely an open book put it that way.

I used to be highly offended when I'd be asked if I'm lesbian..but I definitely don't care as much anymore which is good for me.

Is It Normal?
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  • You say you're an "open book": then how come you haven't just told her?

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    • Not literally

      I'm an open book with my sexuality

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      • I can't even tell from your post if you are gay, bi or straight so maybe you aren't as easy to read as you think.

        Do you know?

        I'm not trying to sound rude btw, I am just kind of confused because your question isn't very straightforward.

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      • I realise you're not "literally" an open book, because open books can't type posts.

        I repeat, if you're (figuratively) an open book about your sexuality, how come you haven't told her yourself?

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        • Oh my..u are misunderstanding me again..I'm not an open book in that sense! I'm meaning I'm an open book with my sexuality meaning I'm fluid.
          I can lean either way as I find women and some guys attractive

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  • Just ask her.

    "Have you ever considered if you were gay? Since your my sister and I trust you a lot, I just thought I'd ask you because I don't feel comfortable asking my friends."

    Done.

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  • Maybe she assumes you are lesbian. Ask her.

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    • Why do you think this?

      My sister wasn't the one to ask if I was gay

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      • I don't think it, I was saying "maybe". I don't know why you don't discuss your sex lives. She might just respect your privacy on the matter. It really could be any number of things.

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        • okay thanks but why did you thumb me down? :/

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