IIN my new boyfriend is content with dry humping my butt?

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  • Hot dogging is the actual word for that act.

    Maybe he doesn't really want anything more like penetration. If he wanted more, he would have said after a time. Even so, who's idea was it to hot dog? I would bet it was his.

    Here is the deal on that -
    This is probably what he wanted anyways but was worried you might find it strange. So then when you were not ready for actual sex, he brought it up figuring it was something where he got his wish while respecting yours.

    Reasons someone might like that or just rubbing it other places - no pregnancy, less awkward than penetration (especially anal), and some just have fixations for doing things other than real intercourse. Like me, I would rather a woman sit on my face while I masturbate rather than fuck. I am just not wired for penetration.

    Just ask him if he actually prefers hot dogging rather than intercourse. Of course be polite about it, don;t treat it like it's weird.

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    • That's really, really weird bro. I'm glad I'm wired for penetration I guess.

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      • would you mind not calling me bro? I know you cannot stand transgenders but you are just making yourself look like an ass. I know that is probably your greatest skill but come on.

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        • I call women bro as well

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          • Alright.

            On your sexcapades though, just make sure and cover up. Having a kid tends to cramp one's style.

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            • What are you tryna say? I do cover up my political and religious beliefs in any and all scenarios with women. If they bring it up, I agree with them on what they say the believe if I actually agree, and if I disagree I say nothing.

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    • Dry humping was my idea, and we both agreed that that was our preferred position and before long it was the only way we did it. I don't plan on asking him as I don't want to put the idea of intercourse in his head if it's not there or give him an easy way to bring it up, I was just looking for other people's thoughts, so the insight on why people like that was helpful.

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      • So what you’re saying is your both happy doing what you do. In that case carry on and why give a fuck what anybody else does or doesn’t think. Having said that my opinion is you should go for full intercourse and make sure he works at giving you an orgasm. Why should he have all the fun

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