Is it normal my mom cheats on my dad all the time?

I am a 21-year old female that lives at home, so you can make fun of me all you want.

About 2 years ago or so my Mom started cheating on my dad, or atleast that is when I noticed it. She cheats on him when he goes to work and usually with younger men, that I wouldn't mind having sex with myself. My mom is quite a cougar.

So I have a couple questions...

Is it normal these days for my mom to cheat on my dad,and ask me to cover for her. She is having sex with guys my age that I would love to have sex with. I am tempted to ask her to let me have sex with her men in exchange for my silence.
Is that a fair request?

Yes, many women cheat! 41
No, women never cheat 37
Nothing wrong with having sex with her men. 43
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Comments ( 39 )
  • RoseIsabella

    Your mom is a skank as all cheaters are human garbage. Don't cover for her. You don't have to snitch to your dad about what your skank mom is doing, but don't cover for her nasty ass.

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    • I am afraid my dad will divorce my mom, and I will me screwed.

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      • jeannie1993

        you are 21 and should be making your own way in life and not just looking out for your own self interest "harsh but true".

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      • RoseIsabella

        You don't have to snitch on her.

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        • So I should continue covering for her and let her keep cheating? Thanks for the prompt answer and that is what I will do.

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          • RoseIsabella

            NO, you should NOT continue covering for her. I also don't appreciate you misinterpreting my comments and making incorrect assumptions.

            Don't snitch on your mother, but don't don't cover for her either! Tell her to leave you out of this mess, the less you know the better. Tell her to keep her cheating ways to herself!

            I know you didn't ask, but I want you to know that your mother's two-timing ways are not normal. While cheating may be common it's still wrong, and there's no excuse for your mother's skanky behavior. Please understand that she is not setting a good example for you, and that your mother is certainly not an appropriate role model!

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  • Ms.Caffinated

    No. Your dads working trying to make sure bills are paid and everyone's happy and your moms being an ungrateful whore. Tell your dad if you have ANY shame as a decent human being.

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  • Ghost-of-dreamsao

    Not cool. Then again my dad used to cheat on my mom and now I don't have a dad. I say it's normal. People just don't value their relationships the way they used to. Especially since technology has made cheating so easy. As for your fear of them divorcing, I'm sorry but get over it. You're not a kid anymore. I know plenty of people who's parents divorced when they were much younger than you are. You're grown. It's not the end of the world.

    Your dad will eventually catch your mom but it isn't your place to interfere. Just get out of the middle of it before one or both of them blames you when the time comes. The truth always comes out so it's not "if" but "when". Get a job, a hobby and friends so you have an excuse not to know shit. And hope your mom's not an asshole like my dad was and tells that you knew so she can take you down with her.

    You're way too old to be the reason they can't divorce. As a matter of fact, a divorce might be what they need if your dad doesn't want a cheater and your mom desires other men. Don't be selfish. Just let them move on and build a happier life for themselves. You move on too, and get your own life so you can stop interfering with theirs.

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    • I talked to my mom today about this situation, and she says not to worry about it, there are no emotions involved, it's just sex, and I should mind my own business. She also said she would be willing to let me have sex with any of her "lovers" as she calls them. Should I take her up on her offer to share?

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      • Ghost-of-dreamsao

        Fuck what I have to say. It's not like you would listen. I'm done talking to you. Good luck.

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    • My mom says she likes being a MILF and a Cougar and she enjoys the sex with these younger men.

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      • Ghost-of-dreamsao

        Good for you. Don't ask for advice anymore btw. I don't think you wanted any. I think you just wanted to share that you and your mom love to betray your dad. Because you haven't tried taking anyone's advice. You deserve whatever you get. And believe me, it's coming. Karma is a bitch. Btw you don't love your dad so stop saying it. You're enabling him to be abused. That's not something someone would do if they love someone. I'm guessing you don't even know what live is. No. It's not when you use someone. You and your mom are both using your dad and that's just sad.

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    • Ellenna

      Unless your dad died, you do still have a dad. I guess you mean he doesn't live in the same house as you, but he's still your dad

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      • Ghost-of-dreamsao

        Wish we could block people cuz I'm getting tired of your ass. Are you going to stalk my comments again and talk shit? Old ass bitch. If that's really who you are. Last I checked, you were also a young college babe who lives with her mom. I honestly don't care if you get me banned again cuz you're a fucking bully. You're probably a pedophile deadbeat dad too.

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      • Ghost-of-dreamsao

        There's a difference between a dad, who you know is alive or dead and/or you communicate with and a sperm donor. I haven't heard from my father so is he dead? I don't know. No one in my family knows. He had to sign me and my sister over when we were younger because he's a sex offender and I haven't seen or heard from him since. He's not my dad. You crossed the line there, troll.

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  • MR.mr

    wtf?????????

    I get you not telling your dad because you don't want to get into the middle of it. But her asking you to keep quite is wrong and you asking for her top buy your silence is worse. This is your dad, seriously.

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  • sararyan7242

    Many women cheat these days, and without mentioning names AM and CL have facilitated a large amount of cheating. IS it normal, yes, should you cheat? Probably not, but it is so easy these days, most do.

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    • Waste

      Agree!! And at the same time is exited. Knowing that your wife is cheating on you make you wonder and want to know what and how..... And what the guy is doing to make her wanting him. Makes me horny. If she ever tells me that she is seen someone I will approve it with the condition that I want to be there and watch.

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  • jsnpq

    It's normal but shitty of her to keep it secret. She would probably be suprised if she told your Dad she wanted to sleep with other men but stay married to him, he would probably say its cool and start hooking up with other people himself.

    It's not a fair request it is blackmail. Still leaves your dude getting shit on too so basically a selfish act on your part. That being said the whole situation us really hot and something I could see myself doing tbh. Either that or just straight up take her men and make sure she knows about it somehow.

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    • Yep, I see you point, and it does seem spot on

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  • Cocomilktitties

    That is kinda messed up. Sadly, it's probably more normal than many people would like to think, but it's still wrong.

    I think you should be able to answer this one for yourself. What do you, deep down, really think about this situation?

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  • sararyan7242

    I understand what you are saying. I would not throw your mom under the bus. It's probably a phase, so let her cheat for a for years.

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    • RoseIsabella

      Honesty, I'd throw any cheater under the proverbial bus and the real bus too.

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  • I am not happy with all of my mom's choices, but I am not a rocket scientist. I love my dad, which make this so hard.

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    • RoseIsabella

      Be smart and just mind your own business on this one.

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  • Bighohnson

    You dad probally aint fulfilling her sexual desires causing her to cheat with younger horney guys a hot cougar like your mom craves attention and sex u should fuck you mom eat her sweet pussy and have a threesome with her u no u been fantasizing bout her pussy uf u do this then maybe u wont feel guilty for covering for her......

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    • That's what my mom says and she likes the "hardness" of the younger guys. Does hardness really decrease with age?

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      • sararyan7242

        My experience is a little, but you have to get up to over 55 before I have ever notice a difference. I have been with 50-year old married men, that were rock hard, and happy to get laid, since their wives weren't giving it to them.

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  • teendicksuckers

    My Mommy always had Boyfriends too and my Step Daddy didn't seem to mind

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  • kiwipoo

    To think people can say its okay for the mum to cheat.

    Tell the dad about it. You are 21 for godsakes and while your dads working your mum is out catching god knows what diseases and she even offers to hook you up? Fml. I dont even know what kind of life you had but i can only see that you probably will grow up to be the same trash your mother is.

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  • sararyan7242

    There is nothing wrong with a woman wanting an older or younger man to satisfy her sexually. Happens all the time. Younger women like older men, Older women, like younger men. It's worked that way for years.

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  • OhIsee

    Could you move out ? Then you might be happier not knowing about their sex lives.

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  • jeannie1993

    im pretty sure that if it was your dad was cheating on your mom you would have already told her, or at least had a quiet word in his ear and told him that if he carries on with his behaviour that you would be telling her.

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  • SirChazwickEsquire

    Your mom sounds like a whore that probably lets guys put it in her butt.

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  • Ellenna

    Don't cover for her and stay away from her sex partners, this situation is complicated enough already.

    Whether or not you tell your father is a difficult thing to work out: if you're close to him and are concerned he'll be upset with you for not telling him, then tell him, or at the very least tell your mother that you will do so if she doesn't tell him herself.

    If you can stay out of the whole mess that'd be the best thing to do/

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  • mrbrownfinger3

    You sound jealous

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