Well that's the danger isn't it? How often does "just sex" lead to more and break up an existing relationship? Fairly often I reckon.
If you don't feel secure enough to take that risk, don't go along with it. Of course, there's always the possibility some bloke will be better in bed for you than he is, ever thought of that?
Most of the straying when it comes to men is sexual.
Typically, a man needs one "regular" woman in his life, but is open to having several "side" ones. The side ones may come and go, but the regular one generally stays the same. Just look at the wealthy/popular men who can afford many women, and yet stay married to the same woman despite their mistresses. Actually, if anything, those with mistresses are the ones who never dump their wives.
80% of divorces are initiated by women. If you're not too much of a pain to be around, chances are he won't leave you no matter how hot of how much of a good lay another woman is. And he'll still want to bang you (if you're still bangable) even if he does other women, since men like sexual variety.
But that's only half of the equation. The other half is you not dumping him because of the new dicks you'll be getting. And for that, he's gonna have to keep an eye on you and on the men you're screwing, and perhaps not let you get too close to any of them. If the idea of you getting fucked by other men turns him on, he'll get involved regardless.
The most common ground rules are honesty about what's going on and a commitment to not fall in love with anyone else: that last one is so out of anyone's control that it's very often broken = broken marriages/relationships.
IIN my husband wants us to become swingers or have an open relationship?
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Well that's the danger isn't it? How often does "just sex" lead to more and break up an existing relationship? Fairly often I reckon.
If you don't feel secure enough to take that risk, don't go along with it. Of course, there's always the possibility some bloke will be better in bed for you than he is, ever thought of that?
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I suppose, the saying what's good for the goose is good for the gander.
I guess, I need to figure out some ground rules, as I really don't want this "fantasy" to spiral out of control.
Any ideas?
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Most of the straying when it comes to men is sexual.
Typically, a man needs one "regular" woman in his life, but is open to having several "side" ones. The side ones may come and go, but the regular one generally stays the same. Just look at the wealthy/popular men who can afford many women, and yet stay married to the same woman despite their mistresses. Actually, if anything, those with mistresses are the ones who never dump their wives.
80% of divorces are initiated by women. If you're not too much of a pain to be around, chances are he won't leave you no matter how hot of how much of a good lay another woman is. And he'll still want to bang you (if you're still bangable) even if he does other women, since men like sexual variety.
But that's only half of the equation. The other half is you not dumping him because of the new dicks you'll be getting. And for that, he's gonna have to keep an eye on you and on the men you're screwing, and perhaps not let you get too close to any of them. If the idea of you getting fucked by other men turns him on, he'll get involved regardless.
The most common ground rules are honesty about what's going on and a commitment to not fall in love with anyone else: that last one is so out of anyone's control that it's very often broken = broken marriages/relationships.