There are dangers that go with having another partner and the key is absolute open communication. What does he say when you talk to him about it? If you can't openly discuss sucking another guys dick or watching him or be with another woman then you aren't ready. I mean really open. Will you let the guy cum inside you? Will you swallow? Can he cum in another women? Do you both always have to be together? Can two 3 guys fuck all your holes at the same time while he watches?
Figure out the rules and during this process you'll instinctively know if you can handle it as a couple.
Ask him how he'd feel watching another man's cum bubble out of your pussy or asshole, how'd he like to see you hungrily sucking his cum off his cock, lapping his balls, rimming out his ass? He needs to be cool with all this.
There was a post last week about a guy who ruined his marriage doing this. You should read it. Basically the wife enjoyed it more than he did and he is pissed off.
IIN my husband wants us to become swingers or have an open relationship?
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There are dangers that go with having another partner and the key is absolute open communication. What does he say when you talk to him about it? If you can't openly discuss sucking another guys dick or watching him or be with another woman then you aren't ready. I mean really open. Will you let the guy cum inside you? Will you swallow? Can he cum in another women? Do you both always have to be together? Can two 3 guys fuck all your holes at the same time while he watches?
Figure out the rules and during this process you'll instinctively know if you can handle it as a couple.
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I don't think I would mind if he cums inside another woman. As long as it's just sex, and not a everyday thing.
My concern is more where this leads to, and not so much the fact he might cum inside another woman.
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It was more that I was asking if you can talk to him like that? Do you feel like you can ask and get answers to all your concerns?
What if he knocked up another woman?
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My husband had a vasectomy last year, so not concerned about him getting another woman pregnant.
Perhaps this is the reason for his interest in swinging or an open relationship?
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I dunno, maybe that's why he had the vasectomy?
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Maybe, that's crossed my mind...
Ask him how he'd feel watching another man's cum bubble out of your pussy or asshole, how'd he like to see you hungrily sucking his cum off his cock, lapping his balls, rimming out his ass? He needs to be cool with all this.
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He says he is fine with it, if he doesn't have to watch, and he can have whatever woman he wants.
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Yeah, alarm bells just went off if he can't watch. He just wants to fuck other women.
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Alarm sirens for me... Vooop, Vooop, Vooop...
There was a post last week about a guy who ruined his marriage doing this. You should read it. Basically the wife enjoyed it more than he did and he is pissed off.
Happens a lot.