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Is it normal my husband only seems to need sex 1 time a week. We're married 15 yrs, but he never had a huge sex drive. Also he's kinda vanilla in bed. I love him as a best friend, but it's hard to get sexually aroused by him :(
talk to him, believe me communication is key.
He might want to try some new things but doesn't know how to ask.
Also I've read couples who read 50 shades have remarkable improved sex lives, I've never read it myself so Idk but I've read several articles that recommend it for improving one's sex life.
Well you must think.if you get extra but truly love your husband an he find out its not going to be good.you need to sit down an have a good talk an if that dont work you may longer be right together.i know harsh but its better than a fighting devorce or he having all the cards in a devorce cus you stepped out.if you need more say so.he might brig a guy home.might take you to a cpls retreat in Nevada where cpls learn how to restart that drive.but to break your oath well you know.it can get ugly fast.even bloody with some guys.
I have noticed the same thing but after you have been married that long you have to spice it up a bit and do different things explore your sexual desires Ie. Light candles try dripping wax on each other. Dress up in costumes act it out! Try feeding fresh fruits with blind folds on. Buy a sex game and play it! Tie each other up! Try watching a porn movie together, or video of you both having sex watch it together. Try a little S & M. , fire play with matches. Ask each other what your biggest fantacy is.
Love and sex are two important things. No logic is there is sex. If u r not getting as per ur sexual needs please enjoy it with a younger guy who can satisfy u like anything. Do and enjoy sex secretly. It is not a crime. I am sure u have not enjoyed extremely oral licking from ur husband . Enjoy it. My own aunt gave me my 1st chance when I was 18 and just fucked her more than 2 yrs