Is it normal my husband i seldom have sex, but we give oral a very often?

If you're happy, why not. Foreplay and oral usually feels better than sex anyway

my wife gives me oral more then sex

My wife and I pretty much only ever have "traditional" (??) sex.

She used to give me oral very often, but stopped and, well, there's only so much you can try and do to ask for it before you become a bit of a pest, right?

I don't give her oral anymore on the basis that she doesn't trim her downstairs much and I have no interest in a mouthful of hairs (which are much easier to avoid giving fellatio) and she has no interest in doing anything about it. I think my request is reasonable but hey ho. I just have to have the occasional wank fantasizing about oral.

If you are both happy then it is fine!

My wife and I hardly have sex either, but I do go down on her every chance I get. I love doing it, and reciprocation is not demanded or expected. It takes me a very long time to reach orgasm, and she is usually worn out before I am even getting started good, so it is better that we wait longer periods of time between my releases, that way it sometimes doesn't take as long. Even though she is not that into having sex much anymore and says she doesn't need it, I need to feel like I please her. So at least once a week I go down and do my thing, which excites me probably as much as it does her. My new years resolution was to eat her out every day of this year. It started out great, but 2 weeks in she said she just couldn't take it anymore. I would have kept going but I respect her wishes and stopped for a few days. Now it happens about once a week, which is really not enough for me because like I said, I love it, but I will take what I can get when I can get it. So go ahead and continue with the oral as long as you can, because one day, one if you may not want to do that as much and that would really suck. No pun intended!

If you both enjoy it and are happy with it, then yes its normal.

Very normal. I love watching my girl get exited about the way I have oral with her. She does the same thing to me and we both get exited talking fantasies...
You are normal!!

If this is what makes you happy, do it. Oral is one of the best ways to bring our partner to an orgasm. Enjoy.

I prefer oral sex to traditional sex. I'm not married though, so I dunno?