Ugh, OK so I have nothing helpful to say but you deserve better. She is going to persist, I mean I am no psychic, I should really just keep my mouth shut, but you deserve better.
Your gender expression, and identity are things you have agency over, your masculinity is not fragile. She is being rude disrespectful and invasive.
That's not how you treat other people. Not saying she's a bad person, but this behavior needs to stop. Unfortunately you being a guy, and seemingly not of such a social justice ilk as she, or really just being a guy, your words will probably mean nothing to her.
That is unfair because she is discrediting your feelings because of your gender, while also telling you you're something, which it sounds like you are not.
I could only imagine if you WERE transgender and how totally cruel this would be a way to treat someone. I really don't know what to say. The world is weird. Tell her to cut it out, and see where that goes? Idk I shouldn't have posted anything.
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Ugh, OK so I have nothing helpful to say but you deserve better. She is going to persist, I mean I am no psychic, I should really just keep my mouth shut, but you deserve better.
Your gender expression, and identity are things you have agency over, your masculinity is not fragile. She is being rude disrespectful and invasive.
That's not how you treat other people. Not saying she's a bad person, but this behavior needs to stop. Unfortunately you being a guy, and seemingly not of such a social justice ilk as she, or really just being a guy, your words will probably mean nothing to her.
That is unfair because she is discrediting your feelings because of your gender, while also telling you you're something, which it sounds like you are not.
I could only imagine if you WERE transgender and how totally cruel this would be a way to treat someone. I really don't know what to say. The world is weird. Tell her to cut it out, and see where that goes? Idk I shouldn't have posted anything.