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My girlfriend say she has trouble sleeping unless she orgasms first. Thing is she also now says she can't do it herself but needs me to go down on her, and sometimes multiple times. So this happens every night now, and she says she's delighted by how much better I'm getting.
I'm not going to lie it seems like she's sort of tricking you eating giving head. I mean I don't know, I'd prefer to orgasm before sleep, but it is not a necessity. I mean what if you're tired you know? If you enjoy it then disregard what just wrote. But I think she's just looking to get some head, which is understandable.
You say that your only problem is that you can't fall asleep after. It goes both ways! Surely you can please her before bedtime, that's hardly an issue at all. But you could and should ask the same out of her!
I have issues getting to sleep too, stimulation helps and it IS better when someone gives it to me, but this could be fingering, oral, vaginal,anal whatever.