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I told my gf that I don't want to get angry with her so I always ignore the bad things she does towards me and it's been months now but she doesn't like that idea so she is rather doing things intentionally to get me angry just to see how I get angry, Why is she doing that?
Sounds pretty dumb and unhealthy on both sides. Granted, her side sounds more fucked up.
You're really going to uncritically accept that every conflict OP ends up in is because someone else is intentionally trying to start shit? Have you heard about unreliable narrators? OP is already saying that they're leaving unresolved conflicts to rot, it's far more likely that she's bringing them up to try to resolve them and getting smacked down.
Maybe she is one of those people who are addicted to drama? Maybe she wants you to breakup with her? If I were you I wouldn't want to stay with someone who always makes me mad, and doesn't seem to care if they annoy, or anger me.
Maybe she's doing this because you're both thirteen - either chronologically or emotionally.
I can see how you might believe that simply ignoring things she does that annoy you is the best approach, but I don't think it is. There will always be conflicts and disagreements in any relationship. In a mature relationship, the feelings generated by this are honestly admitted and the problems discussed with a view to finding a compromise that both people can live with.
Feeling annoyed or angry and bottling those emotions up isn't good for you or for the relationship.