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Today at work me and my friend were discussing the usual stuff, cars, sports, girlfriends ect.. but when I mentioned me and my girlfriend having intercourse he always "jokes" about joining in,but not doing things to my girlfriend, but to me instead. We are both straight and he claims he is only fooling around but I don't know how to react.
If you think he doesn't want to do anything with or to her, you're lying to yourself. One of my guy friends, and older guy, met my gf at the sports bar I go to one night when we were in, and the next time I saw him, as well as after that..All I heard was how much he liked her, thought they "got along well", she's so beautiful, etc. Then, when he'd definitely stopped off somewhere first, then the sports bar, started asking about our sex life and "what does she like?".
I put a stop to it there, as his interest in her and us was about as much as I could take without really getting pissed. Was ok for a bit, then he joked about "ever do group sex?". Trust me, he wanted no part of me..All he wanted was her. And I've shut him down ever since.
I believe you are alittle curious about what that would be like, I think you are really looking for someone to tell you that's it's okay. But you should definitely stop putting your sex encounters out there.
That's one of the more bizarre things I've heard. I think he ultimately wants a straight relationship but I also think he has a slight sexual attraction to penis or men. This could be just part of his make-up but he may have had confusing sexual activity such as being molested when he was young. I am a male and I personally was molested when I was very young by an older figure and I remember a few years later watching Pornography with this same figure and I was more transfixed on the male. I remember saying something like, "wow, she is lucky". Around these few years, I even remember being at a family Christmas and hanging out with my cousins and blurting out, "(insert name) stuck his thing in me." Everyone just laughed and wrote me off as being a weird goofy kid.
From what I remember, the abuser told me he would kill me if I told anyone. These examples above are how something like that can stay with a person and seep out into their lives unwillingly. It's just my two cents, that while he may be joking or have no prior issues as I'm suggesting, that it sounds like it could realistically be a small cry for help. If he is single and/or hasn't been in many relationships, this could definitely compound the situation further as loneliness can add onto it.
Maybe I am way off base, but just trying to provide another perspective.
If it makes you feel uncomfortable then tell him to stop saying these things. Or on the otherhand if it's something you're open to trying then there's no problem as long as it's consensual and legal between all 3 of you :)
You guys should go for it, better to regret it later than feel like you missed on opportunity
Tell him to be submissive to you and then you will be for him and your wife
Just let the homie fuck you, you might like it. Play and suck each others dicks
He wants to fuck you and you should stop telling him personal sexual stuff about your lady.
She really can do better.
If your male friend wants to have sex with you in a threesome with your girlfriend I would suspect he is gay. If you are 100% straight then I would tell him no way!!
Don't do it. You'll be sitting there like a fool watching him pound your girls ass while she begs for more. Trust me.
He _says_ he's straight. He may even _believe_ he's straight.
But how many totally heterosexual guys actually "jokingly" tell a male friend that they'd like to bone them?
Of course, a lot depends on tone and the exact nature of your relationship, but it sounds to me like something more is going on. Maybe he just likes to see you looking uncomfortable, maybe he's trying to be all metrosexual (is that even a thing these days?), or maybe he really is interested in you.
You could tell him emphatically that you're simply not interested, or you could just ignore it, and accept it's just one of those things the dude does.