Is it normal my friend suddenly doesn't trust me?

So...I've had a friend for the better part of two years who has been there for me and given me advice and I've done the same for her. We used to talk about everything and we got really close. For the past several months however she's been pulling away from me.

I casually brought it up at one point, like "we haven't talked as much lately, hope you're okay" and she said she was going through a depressive episode and didn't feel like talking to anyone, which I understood. A few weeks later I attempted to make conversation and she said "sorry we're not close like we used to be, but I'm not close with many people and don't fully trust everybody tbh..."

Well this hurt because she used to trust me. I apologized for if I had done anything wrong and she reinsured me that it's not my energy or anything I did, and that she still loves me and our friendship. I would have understood better if I didn't see her openly say she fully trusts another friend who she hasn't even known as long. And to top it all off, this other woman is 34 and married and has drama with people on Tumblr, some of whom are half her age. Plus she's acted inappropriate with my friend, like hitting on her. Not to sound petty but I really don't get a good vibe from her.

So is it normal for a friend to do this? Am I being too sensitive?

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60% Normal
Based on 5 votes (3 yes)
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