Is it normal my friend hate me and i dont know why

i was very friend of a person, but now, he simple hates me, i dont know why, and i am trying everthing but he ignores me, if someone know a way that i can discover, i will thank you

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  • Probably don't like you because they can't understand a fucking word you say

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  • Cuntsiclestick

    If you've tried everything and he's still ignoring you, move on.

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  • DeathXN

    Maybe you did something he didn't like?

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  • Ellenna

    If this person doesn't have the courage or ordinary respect to tell you why h/she doesn't like you any more, that's not a person you need in your life.

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  • bbrown95

    Some people do odd things or change suddenly for seemingly no reason. I'm not sure exactly why your friend is acting the way they are, but I've had similar happen to me, where a friend I had previously gotten along with great and had no major disagreements with all of a sudden avoided me and even blocked me on social media. I have no idea what happened and likely never will, but sometimes people do strange things like that.

    If it makes you feel any better, I don't know your situation, but if last you knew everything was fine and there is nothing that could've warranted this behavior, the problem likely lies with your friend and it's not your fault or anything you should worry about.

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  • Nikclaire

    Sometimes people just move on in life and it has nothing to do with you.

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  • Doesnormalmatter

    Maybe your grammer was too bad.

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  • RoseIsabella

    You probably did something weird that made that person uncomfortable. I think it would be ideal if the person could tell you what you did, but but for whatever reason that person doesn't want to tell you why he doesn't want to associate with you. I'm sorry, I know this kind of rejection can be especially painful, but you really have no option other than to leave that person alone.

    It's not easy, but they best thing for you to do right now is to simply leave that person alone, and grieve the loss of the relationship. Perhaps if you, and this person have some shared friends, or acquaintances you might be able to ask one of them for advice, or some insight into what has transpired, but there are no guarantees that you will get any answers that way either.

    I think you should do a Google search on how to grieve the loss of a friendship. I also think that you should checkout the Codependents Anonymous website, and take a good look at their list of traits, and characteristics of codependency to see which ones apply to you.

    http://coda.org/

    http://coda.org/index.cfm/meeting-materials1/patterns-and-characteristics-2011/

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