Is it normal my former friend did this and acts like this

She has a disability so thats bad I guess but shes makes it her entire identity.
We met online as teens and were obsessed with the same boyband. I came to discover rock and eventually grew out of that band but also grew up and stopped making my life about fangirling. This to her was mean and selfish. She started ghosting me all the time. Then when we did talk I tried to talk about normal things like guys who arent celebrities but she got annoyed and dismissed me. Apparently shes now a lesbian?!??!?! But even if so, she dismissed anything I tried to say that didnt have to do with the boyband, hung up on me.

YEARS later she called me having looked up my current phone number(and we never even met in person...) She asked ME how she can create an account on a popular social media...That was all...
Another few years pass and she now goes on Skype where we used to videocall as teens. She wrote me a message about how im a bad friend and a selfish person for having changed from how I was back then and not talking about the boyband anymore for example. I reminded her that hey, we were teens, 14 years old and now we are ADULTS. You're not supposed to be 14 forever!.. She demanded I call her on Skype because she prefers talking. I told her that im not comfortable talking over phone and such especially out of the blue and she got mad and deleted me. Because I wouldnt call her at that exact moment, like I would even want to when she was acting that way..

I see on her social media which I come across occasionally. She tags influencers and celebrities in all her posts and the majority of them are talking about how people betray her, disappoint her because of her disability and how shes treated unfairly but ive witnessed her personality... And also how she becomes obsessed even with regular people (non-celebrities)and rants about them on social media which is creepy... She has no intellectual disability so theres no excuse. And if she is normal intellectually then she tried to purposefully guilt me into feeling bad as she knows people dont act like when they're 14 forever. She gave me crap about having grown up after how SHE ruined our friendship and hurt me. I never gave her any crap about that, but years later she has the audacity to come back and try to act like a victim, her favorite role, but not even having anything to accuse me of. Like who even has the energy for that?

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Comments ( 3 )
  • RoseIsabella

    She's childish, and immature. You're probably better off without her.

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    • Somenormie

      I hope they leave her.

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  • jodi1955

    wow long got bored and quite reading

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