Is it normal my first breakup comes back up

I started to write an update on one of my posts about my ex. "Just thought you guys might want an update. We broke up in December like right before Christmas. So yeah. It was really hard for me. Especially since Christmas I was going to be alone I hated the feeling like the magic of it all was just gone. I just wanted to cry the days of Christmas and no one seemed to notice as if it wasn't any different. They didn't know what happened though. They didn't know about her." As you can see I started ranting into the breakup again. Idk why because I thought I was completely over her. It has been months. It just came in again. I mean it was my first breakup.

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  • lordofopinions

    Your first breakup? There will be others. Trust me.

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  • McBean

    How To Get Over Your Ex Girlfriend

    1. Accept That Your Ex Is Your Ex For A Reason. ...
    2. Accept That She Might Have Been The Right Person At The Wrong Time. ...
    3. Figure Out If It Was Love Or An Unhealthy Attachment. ...
    4. Don't Try To Be Friends. ...
    5. Don't Think About Getting Back With Her. ...
    6. Take Her Off The Pedastal And Remember The Bad Times.

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  • barstool

    Gotta get back out there, champ. It's pretty normal (especially if you're a dude - it's like that meme with the guy vs girl breakup. The girl's really sad at first then quickly gets over it, but the guy's the opposite, doesn't care at first then months later he's in tears. There's some truth to that, imo).

    Anyway...just try not to wallow, for your own sake. Yaknow? Think about yourself, put yourself first, do good things for yourself.

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