Is it normal my ex won't do anything after graduating
I'm worried about my ex, we're still close friends and chat occasionally. She was a year a head of me in college, so she's had her degree for about 18 months and has done literally nothing since.
She has had no jobs, hasn't even been looking for work in months and to my knowledge has no current plans. She's been living at home with her terrible family, and... well that's about it.
She has little opportunities for work in her town and what few exist are difficult for her to get because she hates driving.
I recommended she join the coast guard, free health care, decent pay...ect and with her degree she'd start as an officer. She said her dad is against it for fear of her safety,despite the fact it would probably be safer than living where she does now. Honestly I think she just doesn't want to do anything.
I don't really care what she does just that she does something, the longer she doesn't have work the more difficult it will be for her to get it. I don't know what to do.
Despite the fact her family treats her poorly she doesn't want to move away, she has a car but hates driving so she'd sooner not go anywhere than have to drive herself, and is making no effort to get a job while her 40 grand in student debt piles up.
Anyways is her behavior normal and does anyone have any ideas on jobs or something I can tell her.