Is it normal my ex use to keep his used condoms in a drawer

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So my ex was a really decent guy when we first started dating. I dated him from 16 to 19. He was 18 when I met him. Anyway he was my first and he use to keep the condoms we used in a drawer next to his bed. He said it was because he waiting for his family to leave so he could take them downstairs to the bin undetected. But whenever he opened the drawer I’d see old condoms that had a grimey yellow tint to them and a foul stench that filled the room and I would have to leave until the smell had gone. Was he just being lazy or is this genuinely something gross?
I broke up with him for other gross and manipulative things he did in our relationship.

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  • litelander8
    3 years ago | pl

    That’s fucking gross.

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    • Sarah_k_b
      3 years ago

      IKR. Fucking disgusting. He was such a sludge monster

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  • darefu
    3 years ago

    Maybe he saving them and feeding the contents to his sister or mother. More likely trophies either way dump and run.

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  • MonteMetcalfe
    3 years ago

    I think they call that lutefisk.

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  • Tommythecaty
    3 years ago

    Ewwwwwwwww he uses condoms

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  • S0UNDS_WEIRD
    3 years ago

    You guys are trippin'. He was just being lazy.

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  • Boojum
    3 years ago

    I like to think I'm pretty open-minded and accepting of kinks, even when they do nothing for me. As long as it doesn't involve children, self-harm or non-consensual stuff, I won't condemn anyone for doing whatever trips their trigger in private.

    However, I've got to say that this is a new one for me, and I find it pretty disgusting. Not because I think there's anything inherently nasty about semen or vaginal secretions - quite the contrary, in fact - but rather because I think leaving any sort of biological material lying around to decay is simply yucky.

    Maybe the guy just lacks the normal, instinctive aversion to rotting, foul-smelling stuff, but it sounds to me like the used condoms were trophies.

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    • Bazinga
      3 years ago

      Yes. But if the guy had half a brain, he would fill a bottle with formaldehyde, drop the condoms in, and display this whimsical momento on the fireplace mantle with personal satisfaction and pride.

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  • RoseIsabella
    3 years ago

    That's nasty, he sounds like an obsessive weirdo who is probably keeping those things for memories.

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    • MonteMetcalfe
      3 years ago

      Maybe when he has enough he'll sew them together to make a suit like in Silence Of The Lambs.

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  • SkullsNRoses
    3 years ago

    That is truly grotesque. I’m glad to hear he’s in your rear view mirror.

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  • SwickDinging
    3 years ago

    He could just be extremely lazy. Some teenagers are.

    Maybe if you tell him you can't come over again until the awful smell is gone, it might motivate him to clean up.

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  • [Old Memory]
    3 years ago

    lol

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  • LondonGoldman
    3 years ago

    Lol shoulda put them in mailboxes

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