Is it normal my brother is allowed to do anything he wants`?
My younger brother is allowed to do anything he wants, he gets trusted with everything and no one speaks up against him really because he was in a rough patch years ago.
However if I do the tiniest thing that isn't approved of I get guilt trapped, ignored and called names.
I've always been good, never even went through puberty like other kids do and have a rebellious phase. I feel really close to blowing up at times though because i've repressed my anger for all my life but I can't even imagine if I showed any anger i'd probably get disowned or something.
And i've had way more rough patches than my brother. Been in therapy twice and didn't make friends until my early 20s while my brother has always been popular and had many friends. I love my brother so I am not bitter at him for it, it's not his fault. I just feel like I get to take all the heat.
Even as kids he was the saint and I always got blamed for things even if it was his fault because "he never does anything bad" yet I saw him pull mean pranks at people constantly. What was the excuse then?
There was none.