As others have said, you need to be clear that you're doing this because you want to do it, not because you're being pressured into it by your boyfriend. You and your boyfriend also need to understand that fantasy is one thing, and the reality of what he's suggesting might feel very different to you and to him.
Leaping right into a scenario like you describe seems risky to me. You might consider a threesome to start, just too see how that goes.
And as Cipro has mentioned, STIs are a real concern. Even if you intend to use condoms, they can break and there are dickheads out there who deliberately slip them off or tear them while having sex.
Physical safety is also a concern, and I think you might want to consider how vulnerable you're going to feel if you're the single naked woman in a roomful of naked male strangers, some of whom may have prior connections which you don't know about.
In short, I can understand how the idea of being the focus of so much male lust would be a very potent fantasy for you, but you need to think through the real-world potential risks and think seriously about how you can reduce those.
IIN my boyfriend wants to watch me get gangbanged by strangers?
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As others have said, you need to be clear that you're doing this because you want to do it, not because you're being pressured into it by your boyfriend. You and your boyfriend also need to understand that fantasy is one thing, and the reality of what he's suggesting might feel very different to you and to him.
Leaping right into a scenario like you describe seems risky to me. You might consider a threesome to start, just too see how that goes.
And as Cipro has mentioned, STIs are a real concern. Even if you intend to use condoms, they can break and there are dickheads out there who deliberately slip them off or tear them while having sex.
Physical safety is also a concern, and I think you might want to consider how vulnerable you're going to feel if you're the single naked woman in a roomful of naked male strangers, some of whom may have prior connections which you don't know about.
In short, I can understand how the idea of being the focus of so much male lust would be a very potent fantasy for you, but you need to think through the real-world potential risks and think seriously about how you can reduce those.