Is it normal my boyfriend wants to be feminine
I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years, 2 years ago he started sorta "coming out" to me about his feelings and thoughts about his masculinity. He really loves feminine clothing, jewelry, makeup, and more feminine roles. He says he doesn't want to like be a female or be with men or change his body surgically but he wants to grow his hair out and wear makeup and follow the feminine roles of beauty.
I've kept it under wraps with him for these 2 years and he hasn't made any public progress with who he wants to be (Still dresses masculine, doesn't shave, buzzcut hairstyle, yadda yadda) and he says he's still really uncomfortable with himself and doesn't want to do anything drastic. His insecurities are starting to sorta bother me, do I want a feminine boyfriend? No. But it's hard loving a person who wants nothing to do with themself. I'd rather him dress with a chick and have a full face of makeup than drink himself into depression every week.