Is it normal my boyfriend secretly takes his condom off and cums inside me?

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I'm an 18 year-old female and not on the pill yet.
My boyfriend knows that I am not on the pill, so we always use condoms. Sometimes, he'll pull his condom off and cum inside me, but I never notice when he does this.

I am not ready to get pregnant either, so I think I need to get on the Pill ASAP.

Is it normal for a guy to secretly pull off his condom and cum inside a woman?

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  • derpyderp
    8 years ago | pl

    Serious question, you can't feel it inside of you?
    & no, that isn't normal. He's being a douche

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  • anti-hero
    8 years ago | pl

    How is it a secret if you know it?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago | pl

      I don't notice when he pulls off his condom, but I do notice it when he cums inside me, but then it's too late.

      I got on the pill this week.
      I also broke up with him this weekend based on all the suggestions and comments here.

      Hopefully, I am on the right track now.

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    • [Old Memory]
      8 years ago | pl

      I was thinking the same thing. She even says she doesn't notice when he does it?

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      • anti-hero
        8 years ago | pl

        And has been fooled the same way numerous times.

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        • [Old Memory]
          8 years ago | pl

          Right. She doesn't notice either when he pulls out takes the condom off and sticks it back in either.

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          • anti-hero
            8 years ago | pl

            I swear baby it just popped out lemme find it and put it back in.

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            • [Old Memory]
              8 years ago | pl

              *Condom snap*

              Her- What was that?

              Him- I was just snapping my fingers because I am feeling feisty.

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  • PinkHairedFreak
    8 years ago | pl

    That is 100% not right.

    Having a baby is a mutual decision, and you have decided you aren't ready for a baby. And your opinion not to have a child, as the one that would be carrying and probably taking care of that baby most of the time, counts more than his desire for a baby.

    He deliberately disrespected your wishes to be childless for right now. He disrespected you in a way that would tie you down for 19-20 YEARS when you aren't ready. What kind of man would do that to a woman he loves? Not MY kind of man and hopefully not YOURS either.

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    • januarycurse
      8 years ago | pl

      that reminds me of the scene in Lion King where Simba and Nala are coming back after being rescued from the hyenas by Mufasa, and Mufasa is upset and says that Simba deliberately disrespected his wishes :)

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      • NeofelisNebulosa
        8 years ago | pl

        That.... That's kind of an odd connection to make, especially considering the sexual nature of this post. I thought you were going to make a sexual joke about Simba and Nala

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago | pl

    I'm with Rose on this one. Unless you like abortions for no good reason, STOP HAVING SEX WITH THIS CRETIN before you get pregnant. Pill or no pill, you should NEVER allow this asshole to touch you again. Have you no self respect?

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago | pl

    No, why don't you just dump his disrespectful and deceitful ass?

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  • sexysonofsam
    8 years ago | pl

    Your boyfriend is an arsehole, he does not deserve you. On the other hand you also have a rather large problem with the fact that you do not fell when he takes his condom off and fucks you without it, neither do you feel when he CUMS inside your pussy. Girl that is not right. Being pregnant is no joking matter neither is raising a child for that matter!

    You are only young once, enjoy it, once you become a mother you have to grow up overnight and become a mature adult!

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  • Arm0se
    8 years ago | pl

    NO! WTF IS WRONG WITH HIM?!?!? Geez! You need to get out now. Imagine what other horribly selfish shit he's going to do in the future!

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  • walking_stiff
    7 years ago | pl

    I even think that's against the law.

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  • Gspyder
    8 years ago | pl

    You're lucky you're not pregnant already. I hope you realize that. You need a new boyfriend in my opinion

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  • BackWithMemoryLoss
    8 years ago | pl

    No. He sounds like a complete jerk. I think you should leave him. It wouldn't be fair to force that on you. You should be able to enjoy your life without fear that someone like him will ruin it.

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