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So my boyfriend is into Furries. If you don't know what is, its a fetish of fictional anthropomorphic animal characters with human personalities and characteristics. Now, i don't care if he has this fetish although he is starting to talk to me about it. Frankly it makes me very uncomfortable. He wants to incorporate fur suits in the bedroom but I just can't do it. How do i say no without telling him this scares me?
What's wrong with telling him the truth? Good relationships aren't based on evasion and half truths and you are under no obligation to engage in any activity which makes you uncomfortable.
It's normal for him to be into furries, but just as normal for you to not want to be
You have to decide if the "Furries" thing is a deal breaker in your relationship. When he want's to include it in your intimate love making, it's a fetish.
If you can accept the fetish because you love him so much, then that is your answer. If not, then get out now. Real relationships that lead to marriage and children have real issues and concerns to deal with. You don't need this to compound all the problems you will have in a marriage if you don't truly and deeply love him.
Hope this helps.