Is it normal my boyfriend is done within 10 min?

Is it normal that when my boyfriend and I have sex, he's done within 5 to 15 min? He comes very fast and when he's done, he usually falls asleep right away. And doesn't do anything to me, so mostly when we have sex he's done within this short time and I'm not done. But he doesn't do anything with me. He is the only one I've ever had sex with and I was just wondering if this is normal??

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65% Normal
Based on 68 votes (44 yes)
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Comments ( 17 )
  • (s)aint

    He sounds like a selfish jerk, trust me a good guy makes sure his woman is satisfied too!

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    • jay_jay2012

      woman always have to be satisfied first :)

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  • derpyderp

    The official average is like 5 to 7 mins.
    Sounds like the main problem is that your guy isn't getting you off before &/or after.
    Have you spoken to him about that?
    Hopefully he's ignorant & not plain selfish

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  • januarycurse

    Have you heard of foreplay, it makes a difference. And he should think about your feelings too and getting you off otherwise he's being selfish.

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  • Gspyder

    Sounds like your boyfriend is rushing through it and not thinking about your satisfaction. My advice: Get a new one.

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  • I think it varies between people although if I recall I remember it being said somewhere that the average time was less. I've never really been able to finish sex within 10 minutes so maybe where I read that is wrong.

    Perhaps you should start things off without intercourse? Say for him to have oral sex with you first. :)

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  • Qwertyzxc

    Talk to your boyfriend, OR
    Get a new boyfriend!

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  • mr.artiste

    He's selfish for sure. You should talk to him about it.

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  • dytrog

    How old are you two? That makes a diff. And how long you have been doing it can too.

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  • HardlyLurking

    OP says this is their first partner perhaps it's the same for him? All of you calling him selfish please get a grip. Not everyone is the kamasutra master that you all clearly are.

    My advice is talk to him. Let him know you enjoy sex too and that you don't feel like the current situation is fair. During sex get him to tell you when he feels even slightly close and immediately stop so he can't finish. You can have him use his fingers or tongue on you while he "cools down" then get back to it and repeat as needed. Also, start to take some control and tell him exactly what you want him to do. This will give him confidence instead of having to try and awkwardly figure out what works. Good luck.

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  • tzrtzr125

    Put him into a pair of soft frilly panties. This will take away some of his manliness and make him think a little more respectfully

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  • answerme

    I normally last about 20 to 25 minutes and I'm a male. I last this long because I flex this muscle that contracts on orgasm. My past girls say that I lasted longer than anyone they knew. But think about it. So,e men aren't energetic and we do everything ,normally, we are normally on top. Grab a noisemaker to make him stay up until you finish. :)

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  • DD10

    I am a male and when I have sex I have it for about 6-12 mins

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  • Aries

    the amount of time during intercourse is fine , especially 15 minutes .. what isn't fine is he doesn't get you to CUM before he does or with him .

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  • Bragga

    I think it's supposed to be like really rare for a guy to get a girl to orgasm.

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    • derpyderp

      If you're talking from penatration alone, it depends on the girl, but you should always be able to make your girl cum somehow...

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    • (s)aint

      Rare from only penetration but there´s 0ral, fingering etc.

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