Is it normal my boyfriend is always looking for another woman?

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My boyfriend is always flirting, and always trying to get to know other women. He talks about women he has met and how much he likes them. Recently I was telling him a story about a nasty thing a woman did to me. She owns a house in an area where he wants to live. Instead of completely sympathizing with me, he wanted to know all about her, as if he were interested in her.

How do I really tell if he wants to be with me? It seems like he is using me until someone better comes along.

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  • dinz
    9 years ago | pl

    You want to know if he wants to be with you? Isn't the answer obvious?

    The dude is a player, He will dump you the nano second he gets another woman.

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  • Avant-Garde
    9 years ago | pl

    Leave him.

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  • pixie_dust
    9 years ago | pl

    you bf is a cunt. dump that sleaze!

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  • jrouston
    7 years ago | pl

    ahhahahaaaa...it's normal for the guy, but it is not normal for you!you want to know how he value you and you keep telling him about other girls? why don't you just be open to him? You keep spying on him instead of trusting him. look, the more you spy on him, the more he will get into it! The more you tell him stories about others girls, the more he will be interested in other girls. If you want him to be interested in you...then make him know what you have to offer! If interested he will come to you, if not...you will both know what to do

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  • Adelenatalie
    8 years ago | pl

    Cause some People just get in a relationship because their lonely and bored and then they get interested in another person and move on like lightning. Skmetimes they'll get so nonchalant about the current one that they'll talk like you boyfreind. That's how much they don't care already.

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  • Adelenatalie
    8 years ago | pl

    Wow sounds like he's either really trying to get your attention to like him and show jealously(some guys like that). Like for example they will want to see your reaction when they talk about other people. I don't know some people really like it to see their partner get jealous when they talk to other people. But yours kinda sounds like he is just bored with you now or something.... Just don't let him hurt you.....

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  • Nokiot9
    8 years ago | pl

    Haha I do that to my gf what she's tall I me some stupid story I don't care about, like how so e girl at school was giving her a hard time or something dumb, I'll say, "so this Tiffany girl, is she hot?" Just to piss her off and so she'll stop blabbing aimlessly.

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  • Crapper
    8 years ago | pl

    Using you

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  • TrollsAreStupid
    9 years ago | pl

    Dump him, he's going to cheat on you if he isn't already.

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago | pl

    Why you still wit dat fool, girl? Seriously...why? WHY???

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  • KeepsakeDoll
    9 years ago | pl

    Honestly, it just doesn't sound like it'll end well. Seems like he's not ready for a committed relationship. Please, be careful.

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