I can't help but feel like most people that answered this post were not really honest. As far back as I can remember the question, "can I take a naughty picture of you?" has also implied; "So I can keep it forever, showing it off to my friends and strangers." This was way before the internet but I really feel like the rules are still the same:
Rule one, make the photographer swear to never share them and destroy them as soon as the relationship is over. You never really mean it but social norms make us feel obligated to demand this to let ourselves become this 'vulnerable' to social scorn.
Rule two, As soon as you have them safely away from the model, show them off proudly to your social circle. It wasn't my boyfriend taking the photos that I thought of as I posed. I think of his guy friends that I KNOW he is going to proudly show them off too.
Rule three, When she gets upset over it, breaks up with you, or asks you destroy them; That is code for; cool it with the sharing of them until after we are no longer in the same social circles. We have limits too. We knew what we were getting into when we posed for them but we have limits too. Don't ruin it for future guys by humiliating us TOO much.
That was all before the internet. So not all that long ago I snooped in on my husband's log in and see that he also has pics and videos of his brother's and his good friend's partners and ex's. So I assume they all have copies of at least some of my husband's pics and vid of me and us.
I guess I'm the opposite of the OP as I'm thankful he just sent and received them and didn't ask me as I don't want to risk him, his friends and brothers to know I pose and star in them with them finding them on the internet in mind
IIN my bf want to share my nudes?
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I can't help but feel like most people that answered this post were not really honest. As far back as I can remember the question, "can I take a naughty picture of you?" has also implied; "So I can keep it forever, showing it off to my friends and strangers." This was way before the internet but I really feel like the rules are still the same:
Rule one, make the photographer swear to never share them and destroy them as soon as the relationship is over. You never really mean it but social norms make us feel obligated to demand this to let ourselves become this 'vulnerable' to social scorn.
Rule two, As soon as you have them safely away from the model, show them off proudly to your social circle. It wasn't my boyfriend taking the photos that I thought of as I posed. I think of his guy friends that I KNOW he is going to proudly show them off too.
Rule three, When she gets upset over it, breaks up with you, or asks you destroy them; That is code for; cool it with the sharing of them until after we are no longer in the same social circles. We have limits too. We knew what we were getting into when we posed for them but we have limits too. Don't ruin it for future guys by humiliating us TOO much.
That was all before the internet. So not all that long ago I snooped in on my husband's log in and see that he also has pics and videos of his brother's and his good friend's partners and ex's. So I assume they all have copies of at least some of my husband's pics and vid of me and us.
I guess I'm the opposite of the OP as I'm thankful he just sent and received them and didn't ask me as I don't want to risk him, his friends and brothers to know I pose and star in them with them finding them on the internet in mind