Is it normal my bf still masturbates to porn even though we have sex daily?

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He's a little sneak! Like he'll lock himself in the bathroom for an hour, and sometimes if he forgets to lock the door i'll walk in and catch him. Then I'll occasionally look at the history on the computer because sometimes he forgets to clear it and i'll see a crap pile of porno (big butt blondes and sexy latina is his favorites as I've learned). He gets all embarrassed when I ask him about it.
It doesn't really bother me, but I find it curious. I have sex with him a lot, but I'm worried what I have isn't enough.
Do guys normally want to jerk off even if they have sex readily available?

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    You know, this might be a weird idea, but why not let him watch porn while you do sexual acts with him? Introduce him to that idea. He might like it.

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    11 years ago

    He might just have a very high libido.
    If I were you, I would approach him with acceptance rather than making it an embarrassing topic for him (I doubt you do that but still...) and let him know that you understand his porn habit, that he has no reason to hide it from you and that you would enjoy watching it with him.

    It is really nothing personal.

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  • FocoUS
    11 years ago

    It takes him an hour to get off?

    Go easy on the porn history though, it's really easy for that to get high. I browse through videos. I watch 30 seconds of a vid to see if I'll like it, if not I'll go to the next one. My history for a day might say I watched 5 videos when I really just watched one.

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  • Francophile22
    11 years ago

    Men do this, it's perfectly normal.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    11 years ago

    Yes men DO like to jerk off even if they're getting laid.

    Sometimes they need a quick release without all the work that goes into sex and pleasuring their partner.

    And of course he's embarrassed. You're pretty much grilling him over his porn habits and putting him on the spot for it.

    Sometimes men just want a little bit of privacy and time to themselves without having to answer to their partners.

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  • cupcake_wants
    11 years ago

    I let my man have his "alone time" bcuz he's been jacking off way b4 i came along.

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  • mscuuriouss
    11 years ago

    I guess I accidentally deleted my comment (sensitive touch screen). My only thing would be if he's looking up things more than just a few times that happen to be foreign to anything you two do. He could be embarrassed or thinks you would decline a certain interest. If that's the case then you could figure out if/how to introduce it. If not then I guess the male comments would know better than me.. seeing as how I don't have what they do physically.

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  • Imposturously_yours
    11 years ago

    Masturbation and sex are kinda different for guys. We don't do it because we're so horny we'd rape a hole in a wall. Most men do it... just because. Besides, in many cases I'd prefer a quick rub to sex because I'm tired, I feel like doing something else and high libido really gets annoying sometimes.

    It's good that it doesn't bother you. There were posts here by girls who went completely berzerk over this.

    So, to sum it up -it's not a competition to you, he probably gets enough sex (i'm assuming), and everything's alright. We just masturbate and that's about it.

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