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I masturbate at least once in a week and it feels good, but doing it with my GF feels too much of a bother
Masturbation will always be the best. You can do it any where any time!!! Masturbation is just for you!!! Share or not. It's all yours.
when you masturbate you can make it what you like and as long as you like
as far as sensation goes , it's not typically the norm to experience more pleasure . Mentally it may be a preference for you especially if the person is a lazy lover . Masturbation is more often than not a selfish act where as love making or sex requires a selfless person . I say do what makes you happy but consider your partner as you did enter a relationship with her .
To Aries,
Gonna go out on a limb thinking you are a devout Catholic. And IDGAF if you are offended. Grow up.
No part of masturbation is wrong. NOTHING. Masturbation is your way of experiencing things in your own way on your own time.
My wife and I have been together for 10 years. We still both masturbate, often. Neither one of us is being selfish. Sometimes we watch, sometimes we are doing it to relieve stress, sometimes we do it because one person is in the mood and the other is not.
Masturbation is not selfish either. It is a person's way to explore your body and make yourself feel good. Hell, I try masturbating different ways and talk about what feels better to me so my wife can do the same thing.
Being in a relationship makes masturbating better. It can turn into a show for the other person. It can be used to communicate preferences for pleasure to your partner.
To OP,
Now, when it comes to masturbation and sex, I would say that it isn't a matter of "better or worse." Masturbation is something you have full control of the feeling, emotionally and physically. Plus, you have been doing it much longer than you have been having sex. You know what to expect, and you can experiment freely to change it. You are looking for a way to make it better and better (though a good quick orgasm is just something you might need at the time). Sex is something that is shared with another person. The physical and emotional sensations are different.
I am not going to say there is anything wrong with you thinking it feels better to masturbate. You know what you like. You are going to do what you like. I am not a relationship expert and I have no idea what is going on in your life, but if sex with your partner doesn't seem worth it, something else besides you masturbating could be affecting your life, and that is a whole different question.
Tl;dr
There is nothing wrong for thinking masturbation feels better than sex. It comes down to the opinion of the person.
to GManCometh
You are assuming A LOT here pal. You're reply is thoughtless.
I don't identify with religion and i never once said masturbation is wrong . You should try reading things and learning how to interpret them correctly before spouting off on a rant . No one cares what you have to say . I also don't give a fuck if you are offended as you're a nobody on this site .
I love masturbation. There are times when I would rather masturbate than have intercourse. Masturbaring allows me to enjoy any sexual fantasy I want and when it's, it's done. No billshit.
It seems as most of us love masturbation. It is the first form of sex for most. It will continue to be the most special just for us.
As was stated it can be anything one may want it to be. As long or quick as one may want. No complaints about either.