Is it normal its hard to find a lesbian gf?
I live in New Zealand and I'm gay 24f ...don't know how to find a gf? I mean its easier with hetro couples as the guy is supposed to ask the girl out, but who asks who out when it comes to girls dating girls. No, I don't want to go pick up at a gay bar, that's just as sleavy ad going to a regular (straight bar). I have tried dating sites...but hasn't worked out. Also, I have developed crushes on friends in the past but idk if they're bi..and it'd be embarrassing asking with them saying that they're straight. What to do? How does it all work ?