It really depends on where you live. In most of the developed world just come out as being gay. The chances are you'll find that no one really minds. I've been through this sort of thing and you always make it out to be a really big problem in your head, but when you tell people. It's no big deal for them; it doesn't change their opinion of you. You'll feel happier because you won't have to keep pretending.
However there are some parts of the US where coming out would be a bad idea on account of the stigma. Other than that, go for it.
IIN im a gay but pretending?
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It really depends on where you live. In most of the developed world just come out as being gay. The chances are you'll find that no one really minds. I've been through this sort of thing and you always make it out to be a really big problem in your head, but when you tell people. It's no big deal for them; it doesn't change their opinion of you. You'll feel happier because you won't have to keep pretending.
However there are some parts of the US where coming out would be a bad idea on account of the stigma. Other than that, go for it.