Is it normal if it wasn't for the pregnancy issue, i wouldn't care sex too much

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Basically, it's this: even though I've never been in a relationship or even had the opportunity to be in one, the main reason why I'm very hesitant on ever having a sexual relationship is that I'm afraid I'll get pregnant.

And yeah, I know there's birth control pills, condoms, yadda, yadda, I know- but they don't always work. I really, honest to god, don't want a kid. I really don't. I don't want to become a parent, I don't want to raise a kid, I don't want to deal with parenthood at all.

However, if I found out that I wasn't ever able to have a kid, I wouldn't really be so conservative about having sex. Sure, I would still want the guy to use a condom so there won't be any contraction of STDs (And yes, I know that condoms aren't completely full-proof, but I've always had a feeling I"m more likely to get pregnant than to contract an STD).

is it normal that the only thing that's keeping me from being willing to have sex (if I ever do have sex) is the pregnancy thing? And if I knew I was never going to be pregnant, I would be less conservative about it?

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  • SarahJeffries
    8 years ago | pl

    My advice is if you are trying to conceive, you better have a sex intercourse when you are ovulating and you should take a rest when it’s not your ovulation time. Too much sex intercourse will not affect your chance to get pregnant. We talk about timing! The best time of having sex intercourse for conceiving is before your ovulation. Find out more specific information about it here http://aboutgettingpregnant.com . ‘The Getting Pregnant Plan’ e-book makes me know everything about getting pregnant that I never know before. It is filled with so much things to educate yourself. It will works for you. Good luck

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  • theaverageatheist
    11 years ago | pl

    normal. just make sure that you BF is concerned to so he won't force you to do any thing stupid. if it trubles you that much make him where two condoms and you'll be fine.
    th be extra carefull wait untill 2 weeks after your time of the month to do it (or a few days after you stop "leaking" your vaginal mucus).thats when you shouldn't be fertile.
    enjoy

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    11 years ago | pl

    Whoops. Sorry, the title should say "IIN if it wasn't for the pregnancy issue, I wouldn't care ABOUT HAVING sex too much". I was probably having a derp moment, there.

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