Yes this is normal until you find the person who will love you unconditionally for being you. Right now it sounds like you are settling for less that you know deep down you deserve. Why? Only you know. If you don't know... just live your life while you figure it out. You don't need a miracle you need to love yourself first so you can attract someone who loves you just as much. If your bf doesn't realise how awesome you are wave goodbye. You'll never meet the right person wasting time on the wrong one :) X
Yes I know what you are saying but thats the point I was trying to make on my post. I know I deserve better and I know theres other guys who will love me unconditionally but I don't want them. I can't just be with someone who loves me, they need to be loved too lol plus I want to love as well, not just be loved. I love my bf but he fails to appreciate and love me. Hes just messed up in the head when it comes to emotions and relationships. He doesn't THINK. I might be settling for less when it comes to a good relationship, but in terms of feelings, I'm not. If I were to be with someone just cause they love me for me, then I'm settling for less in terms of feelings cause I don't love them as much as I love my bf. So all of this just creates the idea that I'm going to be single for the rest of my life.
My point is... If you know you deserve better than putting up with someone who doesn't treat you the way you'd like. Why aren't you happy to be single until someone more suitable comes along? You'll only ever get what you settle for. You are settling for less and you know it. While ever you do that - you are telling yourself you don't deserve more. Sad but true.
IIN if I think I'm going to be single for the rest of my life?
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Yes this is normal until you find the person who will love you unconditionally for being you. Right now it sounds like you are settling for less that you know deep down you deserve. Why? Only you know. If you don't know... just live your life while you figure it out. You don't need a miracle you need to love yourself first so you can attract someone who loves you just as much. If your bf doesn't realise how awesome you are wave goodbye. You'll never meet the right person wasting time on the wrong one :) X
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Yes I know what you are saying but thats the point I was trying to make on my post. I know I deserve better and I know theres other guys who will love me unconditionally but I don't want them. I can't just be with someone who loves me, they need to be loved too lol plus I want to love as well, not just be loved. I love my bf but he fails to appreciate and love me. Hes just messed up in the head when it comes to emotions and relationships. He doesn't THINK. I might be settling for less when it comes to a good relationship, but in terms of feelings, I'm not. If I were to be with someone just cause they love me for me, then I'm settling for less in terms of feelings cause I don't love them as much as I love my bf. So all of this just creates the idea that I'm going to be single for the rest of my life.
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My point is... If you know you deserve better than putting up with someone who doesn't treat you the way you'd like. Why aren't you happy to be single until someone more suitable comes along? You'll only ever get what you settle for. You are settling for less and you know it. While ever you do that - you are telling yourself you don't deserve more. Sad but true.
why doesnt he think? does he get mad at you or something?