Is it normal if i suck at making girlfriends but i get along with lesbians
As a girl, I don't have that many girlfriends and I just know that it's hard to make friends with them. They either don't like me which I have no idea why or I can't see being friends with them so I don't bother interacting with them. But majority of the time is they don't like me and people like my guy friends tell me it's cause Im a threat to them. I'm attractive and really friendly, don't talk about gossip, confident, etc and they say girls don't like other girls who carry themselves really well like me so I was like okay I guess. But then that leads to how I might not be good at making girlfriends but Im pretty good at getting along with lesbians. I've had a couple of lesbian lovers but I've never turned lesbian. I like the gay environment when I go out with friends, I like them they like me. So it's almost like girls don't wanna be friends with me but they'll wanna get with me? Lol it's almost like how guys don't wanna be just friends with and eventually want to be intimate with me. So to be honest, any time I am getting along with girl, I start getting skeptical like is she lesbian? could be. I've had an experience where this girl and I got along real great and I was happy about it like finally a girlfriend but then our mutual friend said she thought I was cute...great. So what am I supposed to do or feel? I actually want to start making girlfriends but its been so damn hard, its not easy especially when you face the truth and realize you don't like most of the things they talk about; clothes, boys, drama, instagram, etc. Not for me.