Is it normal if i just love giving him affection?

It's not like in a horny way, it's more in a "I am so in love with you I just can't help myself" way. People show their love in different ways. I show it with affection. It doesn't have to be sex either, just cuddling. Sometimes I'm like "okay keep your hands to yourself right now." But I just can't. I love cuddling his face, squeezing his cheeks, giving him so many kisses, hugging him when we're out in public, just being in touch with him literally. Today, I was cuddling against a blanket cause it was cold and it reminded me of his face when I cuddle up against it. I couldn't stop. When it comes to sex, yeah of course its good. We had sex like four times the other day, couple of quickies, in the shower. I know conversation is really important and we do have it but not as much as affection. Idk I've always been an affectionate person but I've never liked someone so much before so I'm even more affectionate with him but want him to know he means more to me than a piece of meat. Same with him, too. Don't want to cause trouble and make him think that that's all I am about; affection and sex. He has shown that he takes me more seriously than just my body so if he looks at me like just a piece of meat, I blame myself. For example, if he wants to go the movies or to eat, then of course I wanna go but in my head, I just can't wait to finish so I can just cuddle with him. Yes he's attractive, he's good to look at but his personality makes him even cuter. I feel like his looks are just the icing on the cake. So it's not like I am just into his appearance, I am into him inside and out. But the way I naturally show him my feelings for him is with affection. I do want to control myself in a way so he doesn't just look at me as sex or he doesn't think that's all I want from him but at the same time it makes me feel good to be with him like that. I want him to know that it's just me loving him.

Is It Normal?
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  • Sounds nice...

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  • I like affectionate people maybe because I dont talk a lot and I would never complain that its too much. Just stop being afraid or you are gonna mess things up by trying to fix things that dont need fixing.

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  • Ofcourse its normal, you love him right? My boyfriend and I are the same, and no, we're not part of the group of relationships that are all rainbows and sunshine only in the beginning. We're rainbows and sunshine all the time. That's what its like when you love someone who loves you back. Its normal.

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  • Is he your boyfriend? This is normal when you first start dating, sometimes it wears away as the relationship goes on you find different ways of showing affection.

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    • My boyfriend and I have been together for alittle over a year and we still cuddle the shit out of eachother, hold hands when we go out, always show affection to one another. We've also been living together for a year and do everything together so its not like we're only affectionate because we miss eachother a lot when we're apart. Not all relationships die out as horribly as some do, and in my opinion it can't really be healthy to be in a relationship where you're not affectionate anymore cause the other person is "old news".

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  • I like you. This is nice and I feel all warm inside.

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  • I'm so tired of reading obviously answered questions. I think this cunt is just bragging about her bf.

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    • Nope. You mad ?
      I was just expressing my feelings to see if its too much or not, no bragging but if that's how you took it then you're probably mad you don't have this. Just say its normal and that's it.

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