Well you are clearly head over heels in love with him so the last thing you want to lose him. But is that what you want? To be a person's back-up plan? Girl you need to prioritize your needs. Put your Brains first and your Heart second. Don't you want to be a man's priority. Besides if you are his back-up plan I think he just not that into you.
Tip: Don't be Afraid to tell him what you think.
I know but I wish I can be his priority. I can prob find another guy who will put me first but I don't want him I want my bf/ex.
And yeah I think I'm gaining more strength little by little to confront him and speak up. I used to be afraid cause I didn't wanna lose him but now I'm just mad and ready to tell him how I feel it's not fair he keeps doing this. If he's innocent and doesn't mean to keep me as a backup plan well we're gonna have to figure out something else. I just feel like he doesn't know what he wants so he is innocent but who knows maybe he doesn't realize he is making me his backup plan
IIN if I dont mind being his backup plan?
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Well you are clearly head over heels in love with him so the last thing you want to lose him. But is that what you want? To be a person's back-up plan? Girl you need to prioritize your needs. Put your Brains first and your Heart second. Don't you want to be a man's priority. Besides if you are his back-up plan I think he just not that into you.
Tip: Don't be Afraid to tell him what you think.
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I know but I wish I can be his priority. I can prob find another guy who will put me first but I don't want him I want my bf/ex.
And yeah I think I'm gaining more strength little by little to confront him and speak up. I used to be afraid cause I didn't wanna lose him but now I'm just mad and ready to tell him how I feel it's not fair he keeps doing this. If he's innocent and doesn't mean to keep me as a backup plan well we're gonna have to figure out something else. I just feel like he doesn't know what he wants so he is innocent but who knows maybe he doesn't realize he is making me his backup plan