Is it normal if i cant get horny?

I used to be horny all the time, and as I grew up it kinda went away
I have depression, dysthimia. it istn a big issue in my life honestly (it kinda is but its not the point)

now I have a hard time enjoying sex wich leads to losing erections and feeling like its a chore instead of enjoying it
Im feeling less depressed than Ive ever been, yet my sex drive didnt come back

is there a way to find it? also I have no fetishes. Im very open minded but I cant find anything that turns me on, except vanilla stuff and barely
im a gay top btw

Is It Normal?
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  • Here is something you can try alone or with another person man or girl. Get some wood kitchen matches Strike them hard on the match box and fast making them POP hard on the match box under your cock and balls about 5 to 6 inches below it Don't Burn it just tease your docks underside and tip with the warmth of the matches. Smell the sulphur from each match and rub your cock. Repeat in till you cum. If you can its even better having some one else strike and pop the matches for you. You can smell the match box or place the striking area against your balls. Or rub face down on the used match box cover letting cock rub against the match box cover. This match fetish really does make you get hard and make it tickle a lot you will cum hard. I masturbait this way all the time but its even better when some one else strikes the matches for you it tickles even more

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  • just have sex with men

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  • if youre in your 20s to early 40s its not normal
    if youre in your mid to late 40s its completely normal

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  • just have male to male sex and enjoy

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  • Sticky plastic used beach ball, get a used beach ball or pool toy that was blown up by a girl and deflate in till almost flat place cock on top of plastic and rub and hump on it face down it tickles a lot

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