Is it normal if a family cant have fun with eachother like with friends, etc.
Ok so im guessing alot of people are like this but then again i know alot of who arent. But um, i feel like our family isnt comfortable with eachother if we do something out of the norm. For example, if we dance out of nowhere for the hell of it theyll be like haha OHKAY?thats not who you really are. But really it is they just havent seen that side yet. Even if i do try to show that side, i feel weird and awrkard like i cant like they think they know who i am so if i act like another certain way theyll be like why is she acting that way? Thats who i am so deal with it. Not just that, but i think thats how we all are. We feel like theres a certain way we act with eachother and if we act like we do when were around friends or whatever, itll be awkward and weird. I just wish we can all feel comfortable acting like ourselves around eachother and party and have a good time and not feel awkward or insecure. Dont get me wrong we still have fun but not like friend fun. I know families who do or people who are close with their cousins and siblings just the way they are with their friends. Who else has this same problem ? Who knows what to do about it? Anybody ?