Well, heres the thing, you not only are missing the father figure but you also are probably hurt and angry about it...and there may even be a part of you that wants to hurt the father figure for revenge...some of these feelings can be in our subconscious...this may translate into.....I will never allow a man to hurt me again but I will take the stupid SOB for all hes got....of course this is extreme and you may have only some of these feelings...the thing about hurting others though is we also hurt ourselves...so your best bet is to really try to talk your feelings out about your father...this may take time as you have built up walls and defenses against this hurt and pain
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Well, heres the thing, you not only are missing the father figure but you also are probably hurt and angry about it...and there may even be a part of you that wants to hurt the father figure for revenge...some of these feelings can be in our subconscious...this may translate into.....I will never allow a man to hurt me again but I will take the stupid SOB for all hes got....of course this is extreme and you may have only some of these feelings...the thing about hurting others though is we also hurt ourselves...so your best bet is to really try to talk your feelings out about your father...this may take time as you have built up walls and defenses against this hurt and pain