I'd had friends in the past that were strippers. That lifestyle maybe sounds fun or whatnot but when you mutually use eachother, it's just bad karma all the way around. You waste the time you could have spent actually being happy finding someone genuine.
See you think that these girls are missing out on true love and happiness because they choose a way of life that prevents them from actually finding that...but the reality is that the types of girls that even choose that way of life are usually already emotionally damaged and would have problems sustaining a longterm relationship anyway..
I know, I know, youre going tell me about the girl who finally quit and found prince charming and has two beautiful kids and all that....thats because dysfunction is in degrees....some of these girls are totally f' ed up...some not as much...the ones that are not real f'ed up sometimes do leave and move on to more normal lives
Thanks for seeing the other side. I am definitely emotionally damaged. My dad left when I was 10 and I haven't seen him since so maybe I am missing the father figure.
I also think its possible to grow to love a sugar daddy. I have 2 female friends who were basically mail order brides and they are actually happy with their husbands.
Well, heres the thing, you not only are missing the father figure but you also are probably hurt and angry about it...and there may even be a part of you that wants to hurt the father figure for revenge...some of these feelings can be in our subconscious...this may translate into.....I will never allow a man to hurt me again but I will take the stupid SOB for all hes got....of course this is extreme and you may have only some of these feelings...the thing about hurting others though is we also hurt ourselves...so your best bet is to really try to talk your feelings out about your father...this may take time as you have built up walls and defenses against this hurt and pain
IIn I wish I had a sugar daddy?
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I'd had friends in the past that were strippers. That lifestyle maybe sounds fun or whatnot but when you mutually use eachother, it's just bad karma all the way around. You waste the time you could have spent actually being happy finding someone genuine.
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See you think that these girls are missing out on true love and happiness because they choose a way of life that prevents them from actually finding that...but the reality is that the types of girls that even choose that way of life are usually already emotionally damaged and would have problems sustaining a longterm relationship anyway..
I know, I know, youre going tell me about the girl who finally quit and found prince charming and has two beautiful kids and all that....thats because dysfunction is in degrees....some of these girls are totally f' ed up...some not as much...the ones that are not real f'ed up sometimes do leave and move on to more normal lives
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Thanks for seeing the other side. I am definitely emotionally damaged. My dad left when I was 10 and I haven't seen him since so maybe I am missing the father figure.
I also think its possible to grow to love a sugar daddy. I have 2 female friends who were basically mail order brides and they are actually happy with their husbands.
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Well, heres the thing, you not only are missing the father figure but you also are probably hurt and angry about it...and there may even be a part of you that wants to hurt the father figure for revenge...some of these feelings can be in our subconscious...this may translate into.....I will never allow a man to hurt me again but I will take the stupid SOB for all hes got....of course this is extreme and you may have only some of these feelings...the thing about hurting others though is we also hurt ourselves...so your best bet is to really try to talk your feelings out about your father...this may take time as you have built up walls and defenses against this hurt and pain